Signs of Depression in Teenagers: Warning Signs for Parents

What are the warning signs of teen depression? How can you help your teen with depression?

Teen depression is a serious mental health problem that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest in activities. It affects how your teenager thinks, feels and behaves, and it can cause emotional, functional and physical problems. Learning to recognize the signs of depression in teenagers early can help you get your teen the support they need before symptoms worsen.

Although depression can occur at any time in life, symptoms may be different between teens and adults. Knowing the teen depression warning signs can help you get your teen the appropriate care they need.

PexelSadBoyTeenIssues such as peer pressure, academic expectations and changing bodies can bring a lot of ups and downs for teens. But for some teens, the lows are more than just temporary feelings — they’re a symptom of depression.

Teen depression signs and symptoms include a change from the teenager’s previous attitude and behavior that can cause significant distress and problems at school or home, in social activities, or in other areas of life.

Depression symptoms can vary in severity, but changes in your teen’s emotions and behavior may include the examples below.

Be alert for emotional changes, such as:

  • Feelings of sadness, which can include crying spells for no apparent reason
  • Frustration or feelings of anger or rage
  • Feeling hopeless or empty
  • Irritable or annoyed mood
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in usual activities
  • Family conflict, loss of friends
  • Low self-esteem
  • Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
  • Fixation on past failures or exaggerated self-blame or self-criticism
  • Extreme sensitivity to rejection or failure, and the need for excessive reassurance
  • Trouble concentrating, making decisions and remembering things
  • Ongoing sense that life and the future are grim and bleak
  • Frequent thoughts of death, dying or suicide

Watch for changes in behavior, such as:

  • Tiredness and loss of energy
  • Insomnia or sleeping too much
  • Changes in appetite — decreased appetite and weight loss, or increased cravings for food and weight gain
  • Use of alcohol or drugs, vaping (self-medicating)
  • Agitation or restlessness
  • Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements
  • Frequent complaints of unexplained body aches and headaches, which may include frequent visits to the school nurse
  • Social isolation, anxiety
  • Poor school performance or frequent absences from school (school avoidance)
  • Less attention to personal hygiene or appearance
  • Angry outbursts, disruptive or risky behavior, or other acting-out behaviors
  • Self-harm — for example, cutting, burning, or excessive piercing or tattooing
  • Suicide ideation

It can be difficult to tell the difference between ups and downs that are just part of being a teenager and teen depression. Talk with your teen. Try to determine whether he or she seems capable of managing challenging feelings, or if life seems overwhelming.

Local counseling is always a good place to start to get help. If your teen refusing to attend, or it doesn’t seem to help, a possible outpatient treatment center might be helpful. Short-term hospital stay for an evaluation might give you some answers.

If all of this fails, therapeutic boarding schools can be beneficial in treating teenage depression through behavioral therapy. Learn more about why behavior modification programs can help troubled teens.

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Signs of depression in teenagers: a quick checklist

Every teen has bad days. What sets depression apart is how long the changes last and how much they get in the way of daily life. If you notice several of the signs below on most days for two weeks or more, it is time to talk with your teen and a mental health professional.

Teenager covering her face, a possible sign of depression in teenagers
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Emotional signs

  • Sadness, emptiness or crying spells that do not lift
  • Irritability, anger or frustration over small things
  • Feeling worthless, guilty or like a burden
  • Loss of interest in friends, sports or hobbies they used to enjoy
  • Talk about hopelessness, death or not wanting to be here

Behavior changes

  • Sleeping much more or much less than usual
  • Big changes in appetite or weight
  • Pulling away from family and friends
  • Falling grades, skipped classes or trouble concentrating
  • Using alcohol or drugs, or other risky behavior
  • Self-harm, such as cutting

Who is at higher risk?

Teens with a family history of depression, a past trauma, ongoing bullying, a chronic illness or other mental health conditions such as anxiety are more likely to develop depression. A family member who notices early changes often makes the biggest difference.

When it is an emergency

If your teen talks about suicide or you think they are in danger, do not wait. Call or text 988 (the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline), call 911, or go to the nearest emergency room. A mental health crisis is a health emergency, just like a physical one.

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